運(yùn)用智慧，適時舍得

韓輝

There once was a master who went to In- dia. In those times， we didn t have the commu- nications or airplanes or many kinds of trans- portation that we do now. So the master went to India on foot. He had never been to India be-fore; perhaps he came from Persia. And when he got there， he saw a lot of fruit. In India they have plenty of fruit to sell， but much of it is ex- pensive because they can t grow much due to the water situation. So he saw one basket， a big basket of some very red， long fruit. And it was

從前有一位師父，他要到印度去，那時候因?yàn)榻煌ú话l(fā)達(dá)，沒有飛機(jī)，不像現(xiàn)在一樣有很多交通工具，所以這位師父就步行去印度。他有可能是波斯人，以前沒去過印度。他到印度時，看見許許多多的水果。在印度，有時因?yàn)槿彼木壒?，水果產(chǎn)量不多，許多小店雖然擺滿了水果，但多半都很貴。那位師父發(fā)現(xiàn)有個大籃子里面裝著一種紅色長條形的水果，這種水果的價格最便宜，一點(diǎn)都不貴。

the cheapest in the shop， not expensive at all.

So he went up and asked，“How much perkilo？”And the shopkeeper said，“Two rupees.”Two rupees in India is nothing; it s like dirt. Sohe bought a whole kilogram of the fruit andstarted eating it. But after he ate some of it： Oh，my God！ His eyes watered， his mouth wateredand burned， his eyes were burning， his headwas burning and his face became red. Ashe coughed and choked and gasped for breath，he jumped up and down， saying，“Ah！ Ah！ Ah！”

But he still continued to eat the fruit！Some people who were looking at him shooktheir heads and said，“You re crazy， man. Thoseare chilies！ You can t eat so many; they re notgood for you！ People use them as a condiment，but only a little bit to put into food for taste.You can t just eat them by the handful likethat; they re not fruit！”So the stupid mastersaid，“No， I can t stop！ I paid money for them，and now I lleat them. It s my money！”

“And you think that master was stupid，right？ Similarly， we sometimes do a lot ofthings like that. We invest money， time or effortin a relationship， business or job. And eventhough it s been a long time， bitter experiencetells us it won t work， and we know there s nomore hope that things will change in the future —this we definitely know by intuition — we stillcontinue just because we ve invested money，time， effort and love into it. If so， we re kaput inthe brain. Just like the man who ate the chiliesand suffered so much but couldn tstop becausehe didn t want to waste the money he dpaid.

So even if you ve lost something， let it goand move on. That s better than continuing tolose.

他就走過去詢問：“這個一公斤要多少錢？”小販回答：“兩盧比?！眱杀R比在印度根本不算什么，像塵土一樣不值錢，于是他就整整買了一公斤，然后開始吃。吃了幾口之后，這位師父就眼淚、口水齊流，眼睛發(fā)紅，嘴巴辣得像著火一樣，整個頭好像要燒起來，他又咳又嗆，滿臉通紅地喘不過氣來，在那里邊跳邊叫。

不過他還是繼續(xù)吃！有人看到他這樣子后，就搖搖頭說：“老兄，你是腦袋壞掉啦？這是辣椒呀！不能吃那么多，這樣對你不好。辣椒是用來調(diào)味的，煮菜時每次只放一點(diǎn)點(diǎn)在食物里增加味道。這個不是水果，不能這樣整把拿起來吃?。　蹦俏槐繋煾刚f：“不行，我已經(jīng)花錢買了，就要把它吃完，這可都是錢哪！”

你們覺得這位師父很笨，是嗎？其實(shí)我們有時候也做過很多類似的傻事。有時候我們在某些感情或事業(yè)工作上，投入了金錢、時間和心力，經(jīng)過長期的經(jīng)營之后，我們從慘痛的經(jīng)驗(yàn)中知道行不通，直覺也很清楚未來不會有任何轉(zhuǎn)機(jī)，但我們還是舍不得放棄，因?yàn)橐呀?jīng)投入了金錢、時間、心力和感情在里面。像這種情形，表示說我們頭腦壞掉，就像那個吃辣椒的人一樣，明明已經(jīng)那么痛苦了，還是不肯停止，只因?yàn)椴幌氚装桌速M(fèi)已經(jīng)付出的錢。

所以，就算你會有所損失，還是要放下，然后繼續(xù)前進(jìn)！這樣總比一直損失下去來得好。