18種相處方式：為愛情增加更多樂趣

Laughter and fun can breathe new life into your romance and relationship. Let’s explore ways to bring more fun into your romance！

笑聲和樂趣會(huì)讓你的愛情和戀愛關(guān)系得到新生。讓我們來看一下能讓你的愛情更有趣的幾種方式吧！

A couple that can laugh together will have a better chance of weathering the hard times. Laughter makes us all happier too. When you can laugh easily with your spouse life just seems better. Good things happen in your body when you laugh as well！

能在一起開心大笑的兩個(gè)人更有可能一起面對(duì)困難時(shí)期，笑聲能讓我們更加開心。當(dāng)你和愛人一起很容易就笑時(shí)，你的生活會(huì)更加美好。當(dāng)你笑時(shí)你的身體也會(huì)變好！

First off， it is essential that you have a date night with your significant other every week. Your relationship with this person needs to be handled with care and you both owe each other that time to nurture it.

首先，和愛人每周來一次約會(huì)之夜至關(guān)重要。你們的關(guān)系也需要仔細(xì)處理，你們都需要時(shí)間來培養(yǎng)感情。

Make it a rule that during that time you avoid talking about kids and work. This night is about the two of you and your relationship. You may not feel you have one outside of those two topics but you do. You got together for a reason and date night helps you remember and reinforce that reason.

制定一條規(guī)則，在約會(huì)時(shí)不要談?wù)摵⒆雍凸ぷ?。這一晚是屬于你們兩個(gè)和你們之間愛情的。你可能覺得除了這兩個(gè)話題之外，就沒有其他的可談了，實(shí)際上你有。你們兩個(gè)能在一起是有原因的，約會(huì)之夜能幫助你記起并鞏固你們?cè)谝黄鸬脑颉?/p>

Not sure what to talk about outside of work and kids？ Start by reminiscing about the early days and years. Then as you continue to have date nights and bring more fun into your romance you will have more positive shared experiences between the two of you to draw on for conversation.

不知道除了工作和孩子外還能談什么？ 可以先從回憶早年的時(shí)光開始。然后隨著約會(huì)之夜逐漸增多，往你的愛情中注入的樂趣也越來越多，你們之間會(huì)有更多美好的共同經(jīng)歷，這些經(jīng)歷可以作為談話的內(nèi)容。

Try to avoid conflict discussions as well. Use this time to nurture your relationship， not cause more tension. Address those topics at a separate time， but keep date night sacred.

記得要避免能發(fā)生沖突的討論。利用這段時(shí)間培養(yǎng)你們的感情，而不是讓你們的關(guān)系更加緊張。找單獨(dú)的時(shí)間來談?wù)撨@些話題，但是要讓約會(huì)之夜保持神圣。

Bring more fun into your romance this week with one of these ideas：

本周就用下面的這幾種方法，為你的愛情注入更多的樂趣吧。

1. The basic dinner and a movie can be fun. Try a new restaurant and then go see a comedy or an interesting indie movie together.

吃頓晚餐、看場(chǎng)電影就很有趣。嘗試新飯店， 然后一起看場(chǎng)喜劇或有趣的獨(dú)立制作的電影。

2. Enjoy a weekend away together. Even if you don’t leave your city， a weekend away brings a fresh perspective and fun， new experiences weekend.

一起遠(yuǎn)行共度周末。即使你不離開所在的城市，周末遠(yuǎn)行也會(huì)給你們帶來全新的視角，帶來很多樂趣和新的經(jīng)歷。

3. Attend a comedy show together.

一起觀看喜劇表演。

4. Go ice skating in the winter.

冬天去溜冰。

5. Play charades. Have another couple over to make it even more fun. Once in awhile， a couples’ date night is a great way to shake things up （in a good way）.

玩啞謎。邀請(qǐng)另外一對(duì)來一起玩會(huì)更加有趣。時(shí)不時(shí)來一次四人約會(huì)是一種很好的方式去改變（好的改變）。

6. Rent a tandem bicycle at your local park.

在本地的公園租一輛雙人自行車。

7. Dress up in silly costumes for an event. Not sure what type of event you would dress up for？ Try one of these excuses：

為某一活動(dòng)穿上搞笑的戲服。不知道可以穿上戲服參加哪種類型的活動(dòng)？試試下面的這幾種：

Renaissance festival

文藝復(fù)興藝術(shù)節(jié)

To see an 80s band

去看80年代樂隊(duì)的演出

To take part in a murder mystery live action game

參加神秘謀殺案現(xiàn)場(chǎng)動(dòng)作游戲

Attend a costume ball

參加化裝舞會(huì)

8. Visit the spa together to get a couples’ massage or pedicure.

一起前往水療中心，做情侶按摩或修腳。

9. Find a local outdoor hot spring to enjoy. Some are even clothing optional after dark！

享受本地的室外溫泉。有的溫泉天黑后可以不穿衣服！

10. Laugh in the bedroom more （find each others’ ticklish spots）.

在臥室里笑。（撓癢癢）

11. Cultivate inside jokes in your relationship. Come up with special names for each other or a 1 word reference to a humorous event that will make you both smile.

找?guī)讉€(gè)你們倆的內(nèi)部笑話。為對(duì)方起特別的名字，或用一個(gè)詞代指能讓你們都笑起來的幽默活動(dòng)。

12. Do the date activities you wanted to as a kid or teen：

做一些在你孩提時(shí)或青少年時(shí)想做的約會(huì)活動(dòng)：

Attend a county fair

去趕集

Play paintball together

一起玩彩彈球

Play laser tag

一起玩激光束游戲

Rent a paddle boat at a local lake

在當(dāng)?shù)氐暮凶庖凰覄潣?/p>

Go to an amusement park

去游樂園玩

Have a water balloon or water gun fight

玩水球或水槍

Draw chalk pictures on the sidewalk

在人行道上用粉筆畫畫

Go roller skating

滑旱冰

13. Sing together. （Karaoke at home anyone？）

一起唱歌（在家里唱卡拉OK）

14. Surprise your significant other with some new lingerie.

用一些新的內(nèi)衣來給愛人帶來驚喜。

15. Take up dancing together： ballroom， salsa， or country. Take your pick and get a free lesson at a local dance studio or bar.

一起跳舞：交際舞、薩爾薩舞曲或鄉(xiāng)村舞。和舞伴一起在當(dāng)?shù)氐奈璧概啪殢d或舞廳上一次免費(fèi)的課程。

16. Cook a themed dinner together.

一起準(zhǔn)備主題晚餐。

17. Rent a convertible for the weekend and enjoy some beautiful scenic drives together.

周末租一輛敞篷車，共同享受一下美麗的沿途風(fēng)景。

18. Visit a local winery or wine shop for a free tasting.

參觀當(dāng)?shù)氐木茝S或酒店免費(fèi)品酒。