推開幸福的大門

推開幸福的大門

by Alexandra Shuman

翻譯：淺由 吳雨奇

Track 8

世界上雖然沒有絕對(duì)的幸福，卻有不肯快樂(lè)的心。很多時(shí)候，我們心中會(huì)裝著太多的東西，“幸福”根本擠不進(jìn)來(lái)。在日常生活中，你有沒有常常感覺到不幸福？你會(huì)不會(huì)因?yàn)閯e人擁有的東西比你多就感到不幸福？怎樣才可以感到幸福呢？老套地說(shuō)一句，簡(jiǎn)單就是幸福。用簡(jiǎn)單的眼光看待事情，用簡(jiǎn)單的心與人交往，你會(huì)發(fā)現(xiàn)，幸福的選擇權(quán)真的就在我們手中。趕緊使出你的“洪荒之力”去推開幸福的大門吧！

As a child, I was generally happy, singing and dancing to my favorite songs, smiling and laughing with my friends and family. But as far back as second grade, I noticed a “darkness” about me. I didn’t enjoy engaging in many things. I didn’t1)relate to my peers in2)elementary school because they appeared so happy, and I didn’t have that ability to achieve happiness so easily.

In middle school, things in my life began to get even worse. I began3)withdrawing from everything I once enjoyed—swimming, tennis, family. I hated going to sleep knowing I had to wake up to another day. I was always tired. Everything was horrible. Finally,4)midway through eighth grade, I was told I had a chemical5)imbalance,6)diagnosed with7)clinical depression, and put on8)medication. It took months for me to feel the effects of the medication.

1) relate [r?'le?t] v. 產(chǎn)生共鳴，與……有聯(lián)系

2) elementary [?el?'ment?r?] adj. 初步的，基本的

3) withdraw [w?e'dr??] v. 撤回，撤離

4) midway ['m?d?we?] adv. 在（時(shí)間的）中途

5) imbalance [?m'b?l?ns] n. 不均衡

6) diagnose ['da??gn??z] v. 診斷

7) clinical depression 臨床抑郁癥

8) medication [?med?'ke???n] n. 藥物治療

9) therapy ['θer?p?] n. 治療

10) inward ['?nw?d] adj. 內(nèi)在的

11) quote [kw??t] n. 引語(yǔ)

12) describe [d?s'kra?b] v. 描述，形容

13) define [d?'fa?n] v. 定義

14) clutter ['kl?t?] v. 使雜亂

15) appall [?'p??l] v. 使驚駭

16) utterly ['?t?l?] adv. 完全地，絕對(duì)地

17) constantly ['k?nst?ntl?] adv. 不斷地，時(shí)常地

18) overnight [???v?'na?t] adv. 突然，一夜之間

When I began to feel happy again is when I realized that I had to take the responsibility for getting better myself, rather than relying on medication and9)therapy alone. Aristotle注1said, “To live happily is an10)inward power of the soul,” and I believe that this11)quote12)describes what I had to do to achieve happiness. Happiness is a journey. Everyone seems to need different things to be happy. But I believe people are blinded from what truly makes one happy.

Growing up, we’re encouraged to be successful in life, but how is success13)defined? Success and happiness are imagined now as having a lot of money. It is so untrue. Recently I went to Costa Rica注2and visited the small town of El Roble注3. I spent the day with a nine-year-old girl named Marilyn. She took me to her house to meet her parents. It was obvious that they were not rich, living in a small house with seven children. The house was14)cluttered but full of life. Those who have decided that success and happiness come from having money and a big house would be15)appalled at how16)utterly happy this family from El Roble is. People say that seeing things simply makes you appreciate what you have, but for me, it made me envy them for being so happy without all the things I have.

“The essentials to happiness are something to love, something to do, and something to hope for,” a quote from William Blake注4sums up what I believe people need to realize to be truly happy in life. People need love; I feel they need their family and their friends more than anything in the world. People need work to do, something to make them feel they are making a difference in the world. People need to know that more good is to come in the future, so they continue to live for “now” instead of17)constantly worrying about the bad that could come. And most importantly, people need to know that happiness is not something that happens18)overnight. Love and hope are happiness.

注1：亞里士多德（Aristotle），世界古代史上偉大的哲學(xué)家、科學(xué)家和教育家。

注2：哥斯達(dá)黎加（Costa Rica），拉丁美洲的一個(gè)共和國(guó)，是世界上第一個(gè)不設(shè)軍隊(duì)的國(guó)家。

注3：埃爾羅夫萊（El Roble），哥斯達(dá)黎加的一個(gè)城鎮(zhèn)。

注4：威廉·布萊克（William Blake），英國(guó)文學(xué)史上最重要的偉大詩(shī)人之一。主要詩(shī)集有《純真之歌》《經(jīng)驗(yàn)之歌》等。

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小時(shí)候，我一直都感到很幸福，唱著歌、隨著我最愛的歌曲跳舞，和我的家人朋友們一起開懷大笑。但在二年級(jí)時(shí)，我注意到了自己“陰郁”的一面，很多活動(dòng)我都不喜歡參與。讀小學(xué)時(shí)，我跟我的小伙伴們一點(diǎn)兒都不親近，因?yàn)樗麄兛瓷先ナ侨绱丝鞓?lè)，我卻不具備那種輕易就高興起來(lái)的能力。

上中學(xué)時(shí)，問(wèn)題變得更嚴(yán)重了。我開始不喜歡自己曾經(jīng)熱愛的人和事—游泳、打網(wǎng)球和家人。我討厭懷著那種知道第二天要醒來(lái)的心情入睡。我常常感到疲憊。一切都是那么糟糕。最后，在八年級(jí)的學(xué)年中期，我被告知由于體內(nèi)化學(xué)物質(zhì)的不平衡，自己患上了臨床抑郁癥，并開始了藥物治療。我吃了幾個(gè)月的藥，才開始感覺到它起了作用。

當(dāng)我意識(shí)到必須要為自己好起來(lái)負(fù)起責(zé)任，而不能僅僅依賴藥物和心理治療的時(shí)候，我開始重新快樂(lè)起來(lái)了。亞里士多德說(shuō)過(guò)：“快樂(lè)地生活，是一種靈魂深處的力量。”我認(rèn)為這句話概括出了我要追求幸福就必須做到的事。幸福是一段旅程，每個(gè)人對(duì)幸福的認(rèn)知都是不同的。但我認(rèn)為，人們對(duì)于真正能使他們感到幸福的東西是視而不見的。

在成長(zhǎng)的過(guò)程中，人們常告訴我們要在自己的人生中獲得成功，但我們?cè)撊绾味x成功呢？如今，成功和幸福的定義往往等同于擁有很多財(cái)富。這可大錯(cuò)特錯(cuò)。最近，我去了一趟哥斯達(dá)黎加的埃爾羅夫萊小鎮(zhèn)。我和一個(gè)名叫瑪麗琳的九歲女孩度過(guò)了一天的時(shí)光，她帶我到她家去見她父母。很顯然，他們并不富裕，七個(gè)孩子生活在一座小房子里。房子擁擠、雜亂，卻充滿了生活的氣息。那些堅(jiān)信成功和幸福源于金錢和豪宅的人，倘若看到埃爾羅夫萊的這家人這般幸福，肯定會(huì)驚訝不已。人們說(shuō)簡(jiǎn)單地看待事情會(huì)讓你感恩自己所擁有的，但對(duì)我來(lái)說(shuō)，我很羨慕他們即便沒有我所擁有的一切，仍是如此幸福。

威廉·布萊克說(shuō)過(guò)：“幸福的本質(zhì)就是—有所愛，有所為，有所希冀?！边@句話概括了我的看法，即人們必須要認(rèn)識(shí)到此話的真諦，才會(huì)在生活中獲得真正的幸福。人們需要愛；我認(rèn)為在世上，人們最需要自己的家人和朋友。人們需要去工作，這會(huì)令他們覺得為世界做出了貢獻(xiàn)。人們需要相信更好的未來(lái)在前頭，才能繼續(xù)活在“當(dāng)下”，而不是不斷地?fù)?dān)心會(huì)有糟糕的事在后頭。最重要的是，人們需要明白，幸福不是突然降臨的。愛與希望就是幸福。

The Essentials to Happiness