話說“建議”的表達(dá)方法

江蘇 張祥美

◎背景鏈接

“建議”既包括向他人提出建議，也包括接受他人的建議。如果想讓對(duì)方接受你的建議，就得講究提建議的方法。接受或拒絕他人的建議，也有一定的表達(dá)方式。

◎句式采集

A.提出自己的建議：

1.What/How about...?……怎么樣？

2.Why not do...?/Why don't you do...?為什么不……呢？

3.Shall we do...?我們做……好嗎？

4.Would you mind doing...?請(qǐng)你做……好嗎？/你介意做……嗎？

5.You'd better(not)do...你最好（不）……/還是（不）……好。

6.Would you like...?你想要……嗎？

7.Let's do...讓我們……吧！

8.Will/Would you please do...?請(qǐng)你……好嗎？

9.Could you/I please...?你/我能……嗎？

10.Don't do...不要……

11.I think you should...我認(rèn)為你應(yīng)該……

12.What should I...?我該……？

B.贊同別人的建議：

1.Good idea./Of course./Certainly.好主意。/當(dāng)然。

2.Yes,I think so./Yes,please.是的，我想是這樣。/是的，請(qǐng)！

3.I agree with you./With pleasure.我同意。/我很樂意。

4.All right,I'd love to.好，我愿意。

5.No problem.沒問題。

C.不贊同別人的建議：

1.No,thanks./No,let's...不必了，謝謝。/不必了，咱們……吧。

2.No,I don't think so./No,I'm busy.不，我不這樣認(rèn)為。/不，我很忙。

3.Sorry,I won't./Sorry,I can't.對(duì)不起，我不會(huì)。/對(duì)不起，我不能。

4.I don't agree./I'm afraid not.我不同意。/恐怕不行。

5.Please don't...請(qǐng)不要……

◎用法點(diǎn)撥

1.想讓對(duì)方對(duì)自己的建議提出看法時(shí)，常用“What/How about...?”，后須接名詞、代詞或動(dòng)名詞。例如：

What about going shopping?去買東西怎么樣？

2.“Why not...?”是“Why don't you...?”的省略式，用來間接地向?qū)Ψ教岢鼋ㄗh，帶有肯定的意味，一般不必回答，其后面跟動(dòng)詞原形。例如：

Why not/don't you do your homework first?你為何不先做作業(yè)呢？

3.建議對(duì)方與自己共做某事，并希望得到肯定的答復(fù)時(shí)，用“Shall we do...?”句型委婉地提出建議。例如：

Shall we go for a walk?咱們?nèi)ド⒉胶脝幔?/p>

4.“What should I...?”有時(shí)用“Would you mind...?”替換，表示禮貌地提出建議。

【注意】mind后用動(dòng)名詞形式作賓語，而不用動(dòng)詞不定式作賓語。例如：

Would you mind my opening the door?你介意我打開門嗎？

5.“Let's...”用來當(dāng)面提出建議，該句型后有時(shí)跟簡短的問句“shall we?（好嗎？）”，使語氣更加委婉、客氣。例如：

Let's go out and have some coffee,shall we?讓我們出去喝點(diǎn)咖啡，好嗎？

6.“You'd better...”用來提出勸告性建議，其否定式在had better后加not。例如：

You'd better not go to meet him.你最好不要去見他。

7.“Would you like...?”表示委婉地建議某人做某事，希望對(duì)方給予肯定的回答，含有請(qǐng)求的意味。后接名詞、代詞或動(dòng)詞不定式。

【拓展】“Will/Would you please...?”也是一種委婉地提建議的方法，多用在口語中，would比will語氣更加委婉。

8.“Could you/I please...?”句型中，情態(tài)動(dòng)詞could不是can的過去式，而是表示更委婉地建議，比can更加客氣，答語中不可用could。例如：

—Could you please do the dishes?你能洗碗嗎？

—Sorry/No,I can't.I have a headache.對(duì)不起/不，我不能。我頭疼。

◎情景模擬

A:Hi,Tom.It's a fine day,isn't it?

B:Yes,it is.What are you going to do?

A:Nothing much.I want to go out for a picnic.Will you go with me?

B:Why not?Where shall we go?

A:Shall we go to the Great Wall?

B:Good idea.How are we going there?

A:I think we'd better go there by bike.We can see much on the way.

B:I agree with you.What shall we take with us?

A:What about some food and drink?

B:All right.Let's get ready.See you later.

A:See you.

◎真題回放

1.—Would you like more dumplings,Harry?

—________.I'm full.

【2018·云南中考題】

A.Yes,please B.No way

C.No,thanks D.All right

【答案與解析】C “Yes,please.”和“No,thanks.”均為“Would you like...?”的答語。由“I'm full.”可判斷，此處應(yīng)該用否定回答。故選C項(xiàng)。

2.—Could you go swimming with me this afternoon,Jane?

—________,but I have to do the chores first.

【2017·煙臺(tái)中考題】

A.I'd like to B.Of course not

C.I don't mind D.It's nothing

【答案與解析】A 由句意可判斷，簡想與問話者一起去游泳，但她首先得做家務(wù)而去不了。故選A項(xiàng)。