丹丹有了小弟弟

文、圖／蘇健

丹丹有了小弟弟

文、圖／蘇健

DANDAN HAS A LITTLE BROTHER

○新出生的寶寶，讓爸爸百感交集。The father had mixed feelings about the newborn baby.

“弟弟肉乎乎的、真可愛(ài)……現(xiàn)在太小了，我都不敢碰他。希望他趕快長(zhǎng)大，我可以帶他一起做游戲。”丹丹說(shuō)。

“希望孩子健康成長(zhǎng)，雖然有些辛苦，但也值得。”媽媽說(shuō)。

“多一個(gè)孩子，女兒以后就有個(gè)伴兒了?！卑职终f(shuō)。

這是青島市一個(gè)普通家庭“二寶”出生后，家里每個(gè)成員說(shuō)出的一句話。

38歲的李棟和妻子張海霞，2006年從濰坊老家來(lái)到青島工作生活。李棟是家里的獨(dú)生子，張海霞有個(gè)同胞姐姐。同年，夫妻倆第一個(gè)孩子李簡(jiǎn)出生，夫妻倆給女兒取乳名“丹丹”，如今已經(jīng)10歲。

2015年6月16日，李棟夫婦在戶(hù)籍所在地人口和計(jì)劃生育部門(mén)正式辦理了生育二胎的審批手續(xù)。次年，已經(jīng)提前請(qǐng)好假的李棟起早趕到青島市婦幼保健院，陪護(hù)著臨產(chǎn)的妻子，迎接第二個(gè)寶寶的誕生。

“已經(jīng)中午12點(diǎn)半多了……”產(chǎn)房外，李棟在焦急地等待著消息，妻子已經(jīng)被推進(jìn)手術(shù)室準(zhǔn)備剖腹產(chǎn)，張海霞的姐姐也在門(mén)外等待著。

“李棟家屬——”產(chǎn)房里傳出護(hù)士的喊聲，李棟和家人匆匆奔向打開(kāi)的手術(shù)室門(mén)口?！笆莻€(gè)男孩兒，母子平安！”護(hù)士抱著襁褓中的嬰兒面帶微笑。

李棟的臉上掛著欣喜的笑容，忙碌著和家人將產(chǎn)婦和孩子接了出來(lái)……

李棟夫婦一直想要給女兒創(chuàng)造一個(gè)有兄弟姐妹的成長(zhǎng)環(huán)境，將來(lái)彼此有個(gè)伴兒。正好趕上新的生育政策出臺(tái)，正合了夫妻倆的心意。

○秋色爛漫，丹丹和爸爸媽媽在小區(qū)花園里散步。In the brilliant autumn, Dandan and her parents took a walk in their residential garden.

“丹丹跟我小時(shí)候一樣，經(jīng)常一個(gè)人玩，每次有鄰居家的小孩和同學(xué)到家里來(lái)，就特別興奮，孩子們?cè)谝黄鹜娴靡蔡貏e開(kāi)心。”李棟說(shuō)，“有了弟弟，他們姐弟倆可以做個(gè)伴兒了，丹丹剛開(kāi)始一直想要個(gè)妹妹，希望和妹妹做做游戲、給她梳個(gè)小辮子。有了小弟弟以后，她也是滿(mǎn)心歡喜，非常期待做一個(gè)好姐姐。”

隨著“二寶”呱呱墜地，丹丹有了弟弟，家里也添了不少歡聲笑語(yǔ)。這僅是“二孩”政策實(shí)施后，一個(gè)普通家庭的選擇與視角。據(jù)統(tǒng)計(jì)，中國(guó)自上個(gè)世紀(jì)80年代開(kāi)始嚴(yán)格實(shí)行計(jì)劃生育政策，截至2015年共有約1.5億個(gè)獨(dú)生子女家庭?！蔼?dú)生子女”曾是熱門(mén)的社會(huì)話題，而隨著“全面二孩”的放開(kāi)，常見(jiàn)的兩個(gè)大人一個(gè)小孩的家庭組合也將逐漸改變。

○丹丹的畫(huà)里，有爺爺奶奶、爸爸媽媽和自己，這種家庭模式如今已經(jīng)改變了。Dandan’s picture includes her grandparents, parents and herself. Such a family pattern has changed now.

○“獨(dú)生子女光榮證”，承載了一代人的記憶。完成了它的使命、寫(xiě)入了歷史。“Certificate of Honor for the Only Child” carries the memory of a generation. It has completed its mission, and has been recorded in history.

○李棟夫婦戶(hù)籍所在地人口計(jì)生部門(mén)頒發(fā)的二孩審批證明。Certificate of Approval for a Second Child issued to Li Dong and his wife by the department of population and family planning in their registered permanent residence.

○雖然媽媽肚子里有了寶寶，可丹丹還總想在媽媽身上撒嬌。Though her mother was pregnant with a baby, Dandan still wishes to nestle in the arms of her mother.

○有了“二寶”，讓這個(gè)家庭平添了許多歡樂(lè)。The “second child” adds many joyous topics to this family.

○丹丹托著弟弟的手，很是喜愛(ài)。In the eyes of Dandan, her little brother is so soft and small that he needs care.

38-year-old Li Dong and his wife Zhang Haixia left their hometown – Weifang,Qingdao, and began working and living in Qingdao in 2006. In the same year,their first child Li Jian was born. The couple gave the girl a pet name “Dandan”.Now, the girl is 10 years old.

The couple always wanted to provide their daughter a growing environment with a sibling, allowing her to have a companion in the future. As the new childbearing policy was issued, Zhang Haixia gave birth to a baby after 10 months of pregnancy. Like many couples who wish to have the second child, they were looking forward to the coming of the day.

According to statistics, China began strictly implementing the family planning policy in the 1980s. As of 2015, there were a total of 150 million one-child families.The “Sinfle Child” became a hot topic in society. As the “Universal Two-Child Policy” was issued, the common family combination of two parents and one child will be gradually changed.

編輯／王雪芃