愿你盡享人生

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愿你盡享人生

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At the airport， I overheard①overhear 英 ［??v?'h??］ 美 ［，ov?'h?r］ vt. 偶爾聽到；無意中聽到；偷聽a father and daughter in their last moments together. Her flight was ready for boarding. Standing near the departure gate. They hugged and he said， "I love you， I wish you enough." She in turn said， "Daddy， our life together has been more than enough. Your love is all I ever needed. I wish you enough， too， Daddy."

They kissed goodbye and she left. The man walked over towards the window near where I was seated. I could see that he wanted and needed to cry.

I tried not to intrude②intrude 英 ［?n'tru?d］ 美 ［?n'tr?d］ vt. 把……強加；把……硬擠vi. 闖入；侵入；侵擾upon his privacy， but he welcomed me by asking，"Have you ever said goodbye to someone knowing that it would be forever？"

"Yes， I have." Saying that brought back memories I had of expressing my love and appreciation③appreciation 英 ［?pri???'e??（?）n； -s?-］ 美 ［?，pri??'e??n］ n. 欣賞，鑒別；增值；感謝for all that my Dad had done for me. Recognizing that his days were numbered， I took the time to tell him， face to face， how much he meant to me. So I knew what this man was going through.

"Forgive me for asking，but why is this goodbye forever？" I asked.

"I am old and she lives much too far away. I have challenges ahead and the reality is， her next trip back will be for my funeral，" he said.

"I heard you say 'I wish you enough' May I ask what that means？"

He began to smile. "That is a wish that has been handed down through the generations. My parents used to say it to everyone."

"When we say I wish you enough， we want the other persons to have a life filled with enough good things to sustain④sustain 英 ［s?'ste?n］ 美 ［s?'sten］ vt. 維持；支撐，承擔；忍受；供養(yǎng)；證實them."

He then turned to me and shared the following， as if he were reciting⑤recite 英 ［r?'sa?t］ 美 ［r?'sa?t］ vt. 背誦；敘述；列舉vi. 背誦；敘述it from memory:

I wish you enough sun to keep your attitude bright.

I wish you enough rain to appreciate the sun more.

I wish you enough happiness to keep your spirits up.

I wish you enough pain so that the smallest joys in life appear much bigger.

I wish you enough gain to satisfy your wanting.

I wish you enough loss to appreciate all that you possess⑥possess 英 ［p?'zes］ 美 ［p?'z?s］ vt. 控制；使掌握；持有；迷?。粨碛?，具備.

I wish you enough hellos to get you through the final Goodbye.

Then the man began to sob and walked away.

在機場我無意中聽到父女倆在最后分別時刻的談話。女兒正準備上飛機，他們站在飛機門附近。他們擁抱著，父親說：“我愛你，我希望你能知足常樂，享盡人生?！迸畠夯卮鹫f：“爸爸，我們在一起生活了這么長時間我已經(jīng)很知足了，您給我的愛也夠了，我也希望您能知足常樂，享盡人生，爸爸！”

吻別后，女兒走了。父親朝著我座位附近的窗子走過來，我可以看出他忍不住要哭。

我盡力不觸及他的隱私，但他卻向我打招呼，問：“你曾經(jīng)有過明知是永別卻還對某人說再見的經(jīng)歷嗎？”

“我有過這種經(jīng)歷。”這句話讓我想起我曾因父親為我所做的一切向他表示過我的愛和感激。知道他在世的日子不多后，我特意當面對他說他對我有多么重要。所以我理解這個人此時的感受。

“請原諒我問一句，為什么是永別呢？”我問。

“我老了，她又住得那么遠。我的未來生活充滿挑戰(zhàn)。實際上，她再回來的時候便是參加我的葬禮了?！彼f。

“我聽到你說‘我希望你知足常樂，享盡人生’，那是什么意思？”

他露出微笑?！澳莻€愿望是我們家代代相傳的。我的父母過去常對每個人說?！?/p>

“我們對人們說知足常樂，享盡人生，就是希望對方的生活里充滿幸事，支撐他們走下去?！?/p>

他轉(zhuǎn)向我，對我說了下面這些話，像是在背誦：

我希望你有足夠的陽光讓你樂觀。

我希望你有足夠的雨水讓你更加感激陽光。

我希望你有足夠的幸福使你情緒激昂。

我希望你有足夠的痛苦感受生命中微小的歡樂帶來的幸福。

我希望你得到更多，滿足你的需要。

我希望你失去更多，珍惜所有。

我希望你在永別后能廣交朋友。

那個人開始抽泣，然后走開了。

I Wish You Enough